Tru Healing Therapy takes a modern & relatable approach to therapy that you will look forward to— for Millennials in Apple Valley & virtually throughout California
At Tru Healing Therapy, I aim to help millennials overcome self-doubt, negative beliefs, past traumas, and the cycle of anxiety that often leads to spiraling thoughts. Through relatable, modern therapy, I guide you on a journey of healing, self-acceptance, & growth. I believe you are already enough—& my mission is to help you feel it, live it, & embrace a life that calms your mind, serves your needs and restores your joy.
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Do you often feel like you’re never enough or find yourself constantly comparing yourself to others? Maybe your inner critic has taken the driver’s seat, filling your mind with self-critical thoughts and negative beliefs that leave you feeling undeserving of happiness, success, or even peace of mind.
You might wonder:
Why do I always feel like I have to prove my worth?
How can I stop blaming myself for everything that goes wrong?
What would it feel like to finally be okay with who I am?
In our sessions, we’ll explore the roots of these feelings and beliefs, helping you understand why they show up and how to gently shift them. Using a solution-focused approach, we’ll identify what a more confident and self-assured version of yourself looks like and take small, meaningful steps to get you there.
Together, we’ll:
Challenge the thoughts and beliefs that keep you stuck in self-doubt.
Develop practical tools to quiet that inner critic and nurture self-compassion.
Celebrate the strengths and qualities that make you uniquely you.
You don’t have to stay trapped in the cycle of self-criticism. With the right support, you can learn to appreciate yourself, set boundaries that honor your worth, and feel truly enough—just as you are.
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Does your mind constantly race with what-ifs and worst-case scenarios? Maybe you find yourself spiraling through worry, unable to shut it off. You’ve tried to stay calm, but the pressure of juggling expectations, meeting deadlines, and figuring out your next steps in life feels impossible to manage.
You might ask yourself:
Why can’t I just relax and enjoy life like everyone else seems to?
What’s wrong with me? Why do I get so overwhelmed by things other people handle easily?
How do I stop this endless cycle of worry and finally feel in control again?
In our sessions, we’ll focus on what’s driving your anxiety and work toward practical, realistic ways to ease the overwhelm. Using a solution-focused approach, we’ll start by identifying what relief from anxiety looks like for you—whether it’s a calmer mind, more balanced days, or feeling confident in your ability to handle life’s uncertainties.
Together, we’ll:
Pinpoint triggers and patterns that contribute to your anxiety.
Build skills to interrupt spiraling thoughts and bring you back to the present.
Develop routines and coping strategies that help you feel more grounded.
Reframe unhelpful beliefs and empower you to trust yourself and your decisions.
Anxiety doesn’t have to control your life. With support, you can learn to quiet the noise, step out of survival mode, and start living with more ease and confidence.
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Have you ever felt like certain memories or experiences still have a hold on you, even years later? Maybe you can’t pinpoint exactly why you feel stuck or why it’s so hard to trust or connect with others. You might find yourself overthinking, avoiding certain situations, or feeling a constant undercurrent of tension or numbness.
You might wonder:
Why do I feel like I’m not fully present in my own life?
Why do I struggle to trust myself or others?
What would it be like to feel safe and free from the weight of my past?
In our sessions, we’ll explore what healing looks like for you—whether it’s learning to process painful memories, rebuilding your confidence, or finding ways to trust yourself again. We’ll approach this journey with a solution-focused mindset, focusing on your strengths and goals while gently addressing the deeper parts of your story that need care.
Together, we’ll:
Identify the ways trauma is impacting your life now.
Create a safe space for you to express your feelings without judgment.
Build coping tools to help you manage triggers and regain a sense of control.
Develop ways to reconnect with who you are and what you want out of life.
Healing is not linear, but you don’t have to navigate it alone. With support, you can move through the pain, understand your reactions, and build a future where you feel more at peace and in control.
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When life gets busy, it’s easy to forget that the most important relationship you have is the one with yourself. You might find that you're always putting others first—whether it’s friends, family, or partners—until you’re left feeling drained, misunderstood, or disconnected from who you are. Or maybe you struggle to speak up for yourself, avoid conflict, or hold back your thoughts and feelings because you’re afraid of how others will react.
You might wonder:
Why do I feel like I’m always giving, but never truly receiving?
Why is it so hard for me to express my needs without feeling guilty or worried?
How do I find a balance between being there for others and taking care of myself?
In our sessions, we’ll focus on rebuilding your relationship with yourself so you can show up more authentically in relationships with others. We’ll use a solution-focused approach to help you recognize your self-worth, set healthy boundaries, and create the space to nurture your own needs.
Together, we’ll:
Identify the patterns and beliefs that keep you from prioritizing yourself.
Develop tools to express your feelings and needs with confidence.
Practice ways to create balance in your relationships, where you can both give and receive.
Explore your strengths and values to help you reconnect with who you truly are.
Remember, when you strengthen your relationship with yourself, you create a foundation for healthier and more fulfilling connections with others. You deserve to show up for yourself and for those around you, fully and without compromise.
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Do you find yourself constantly pushing for more, never feeling satisfied with your achievements, or getting caught in the cycle of self-criticism when things don’t go perfectly? Maybe you struggle with the fear of failure or the anxiety that comes with trying to meet impossibly high standards, whether you set them for yourself or feel them coming from the outside.
You might ask yourself:
Why do I feel like I’m never doing enough, even when I’m giving everything I have?
Why does it feel so scary to make a mistake or show any vulnerability?
How do I find peace without feeling like I’m falling behind?
In our sessions, we’ll explore what perfectionism is costing you and how to redefine what success and self-worth mean for you. With a solution-focused approach, we’ll focus on practical steps to help you embrace imperfection and cultivate a healthier, more compassionate relationship with yourself.
Together, we’ll:
Identify the beliefs and fears that fuel your perfectionist tendencies.
Develop strategies to manage the pressure and anxiety that come with striving for perfection.
Practice self-compassion and learn how to celebrate progress, not just results.
Explore ways to set realistic goals and maintain a balanced approach to achievement.
You don’t have to be perfect to be valuable or deserving of happiness. With support, you can learn to quiet the inner pressure, find joy in imperfection, and create a life where you can show up as your authentic self—without the fear of falling short.
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It’s easy to get caught up in the hustle—overworking, saying yes when you want to say no, and pushing yourself until you’re running on empty. But when was the last time you took a moment to truly care for yourself, to show yourself the kindness and understanding you’d give a friend? If you struggle with being overly critical of yourself or feel like you never deserve rest or relaxation, you’re not alone.
Practicing kindness to yourself means recognizing that you deserve the same compassion and care you offer others. It’s about treating yourself with patience, celebrating your progress, and allowing yourself to rest without guilt.
You might wonder:
Why do I always put others’ needs before my own?
How do I stop feeling guilty for taking time to care for myself?
What would it be like to treat myself with the same compassion I show others?
In our sessions, we’ll explore what kindness to yourself looks like. Using a solution-focused approach, we’ll identify practical ways to integrate these practices into your daily life, making them sustainable and meaningful.
Together, we’ll:
Identify the negative self-talk that keeps you from prioritizing yourself.
Create simple, actionable self-care routines that nourish your mind, body, and spirit.
Learn how to set boundaries that protect your energy and well-being.
Develop ways to pause, reflect, and respond to yourself with kindness during difficult moments.
Kindness to yourself isn’t just about treating yourself gently—it’s about recognizing that you deserve love and care, even on your hardest days. With support, you can learn to break free from the cycle of self-criticism and embrace practices that help you show up as your best self, inside and out.
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Do you feel like you’re running on empty, no matter how hard you push? Maybe you started out with passion and excitement, but now everything feels like a chore. You’re exhausted, disconnected, and even the things you once enjoyed feel draining. It’s like there’s no space left for you, and the pressure to keep going just builds and builds.
You might wonder:
Why do I feel so tired even after I rest?
How do I get my energy and motivation back?
What happened to the excitement I once felt about my life and goals?
In our sessions, we’ll address what burnout is costing you and how to reclaim your sense of balance and joy. With a solution-focused approach, we’ll work on practical ways to shift out of survival mode, set boundaries, and prioritize what really matters to you.
Together, we’ll:
Identify the signs of burnout and what triggers them for you.
Create a personalized plan for managing stress and replenishing your energy.
Learn strategies to set boundaries that help you protect your time and well-being.
Rediscover activities and practices that help you reconnect with your sense of self and purpose.
Burnout doesn’t have to be a permanent state. With support, you can find ways to slow down, recharge, and start building a life where you don’t just survive—you thrive.
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Life is full of changes, and it’s normal to feel unsure about where you’re headed or how to navigate the unknown. Whether you’re considering a career change, moving to a new city, stepping into motherhood, or just wondering if you’re where you’re “supposed” to be, these transitions can bring up self-doubt, comparison, and anxiety about the future.
You might wonder:
Am I on the right path, or am I falling behind?
Why do I feel so unsettled, even when everything around me seems fine?
How do I handle the pressure of making big decisions or stepping into a new phase of life?
In our sessions, we’ll work on clarifying your vision and navigating the uncertainties that come with major life changes. With a solution-focused approach, we’ll explore your strengths, help you identify your values, and develop strategies for managing anxiety and staying grounded during these pivotal moments.
Together, we’ll:
Reflect on where you are now and what you want for your future.
Break down big decisions into manageable steps that align with your goals and values.
Practice self-compassion and resilience when facing challenges and uncertainties.
Explore ways to quiet the comparison and reconnect with your unique journey.
Life transitions can feel overwhelming, but you don’t have to navigate them alone. With support, you can move forward with confidence, find clarity in your choices, and embrace new chapters with a sense of purpose and self-assurance.
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Do you often feel like you’re constantly putting others first, saying yes when you want to say no, or struggling to communicate what you truly need? Setting and maintaining boundaries can feel intimidating, especially when you’re worried about disappointing others or facing conflict. Yet, boundaries are essential for protecting your energy, prioritizing your well-being, and showing up as your best self.
You might wonder:
Why do I feel guilty when I set limits, even though I know I need them?
How do I stop feeling overwhelmed by other people’s expectations and demands?
What if setting boundaries pushes people away or makes them angry?
In our sessions, we’ll explore the importance of healthy boundaries and how to establish them in a way that feels authentic and respectful. Using a solution-focused approach, we’ll work on practical ways to communicate your needs, handle pushback, and create a life where you feel empowered and respected.
Together, we’ll:
Identify the areas where boundaries are most needed and why they’re important for you.
Develop tools and scripts to help you express your needs clearly and confidently.
Practice strategies to handle guilt or resistance when setting boundaries.
Reinforce your commitment to maintaining your limits and prioritize self-care.
Boundaries aren’t about shutting people out; they’re about creating the space you need to thrive. With support, you can learn to set limits that protect your well-being while maintaining healthy and meaningful relationships.
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Life can feel overwhelming, and the pressure to keep up can leave you feeling worn out and disconnected. Whether it’s work demands, social obligations, or personal expectations, stress can build up and take a toll on your mental and physical well-being. It’s easy to feel like you’re stuck in a cycle of stress, but it doesn’t have to control your life.
You might wonder:
Why do I feel so on edge, even when there’s nothing specific happening?
How can I manage my stress without feeling guilty for taking time for myself?
What are practical ways to stay grounded when life feels chaotic?
In our sessions, we’ll explore your unique stress triggers and develop personalized strategies to manage them effectively. With a solution-focused approach, we’ll focus on actionable steps that help you build resilience and find moments of calm, even on the busiest days.
Together, we’ll:
Identify the sources of stress in your life and explore their impact.
Create manageable, practical tools for staying present and reducing stress.
Practice mindfulness and breathing exercises that you can use in real time.
Learn how to balance responsibilities with moments of rest and self-care.
Coping with stress isn’t about eliminating challenges—it’s about learning to navigate them in a way that doesn’t leave you feeling depleted. With support, you can develop a toolkit to manage stress effectively, find balance, and cultivate a sense of peace, even in the midst of life’s demands.
Licensed Marriage & Family Therapist & Owner of Tru Healing Therapy in California
“I strive to create a world where millennials no longer feel trapped by self-doubt, past trauma, or negative self-perception, but instead, live confidently, authentically, & with a deep sense of self-worth.”
I’m a relational therapist, which means I’m all about connection, starting with the one you have with yourself. Maybe you’re feeling lost, anxious, or like you’re not good enough. Are you struggling with imposter syndrome? Constantly second-guessing yourself? Or maybe, you’re feeling disconnected from the people around you—like friendships have become complicated, your romantic relationships feel off, or you’re drowning in the pressures of being a good parent.
As a therapist who gets the millennial experience, I’m here to help you untangle all those relationship dynamics—whether it’s the way you talk to yourself, how you connect with your partner, or how you balance boundaries at work & with family. Together, we’ll work through the self-doubt, improve your communication, & help you build stronger, healthier relationships with both yourself & the people in your life. It's about finding that balance between personal growth & nurturing the connections that matter most to you.
I want you to imagine a more fulfilling & balanced life, with healthier relationships, & a positive mindset, all without the overwhelming internal monologue that you aren’t doing enough… Then, recognize that you're not alone in this pursuit!
Together, we will explore practical resources, empowering solutions, & a positive outlook that can bring meaningful change to your life.
“I envision a future where healing from past pain is normalized, therapy is approachable and relatable, and individuals feel empowered to break generational cycles of trauma.”
I help my clients uncover and break free from the limiting beliefs and negative thought patterns that keep them stuck using solution-focused therapy. In our work together, we'll explore the root causes of your self-doubt and perfectionism, helping you to challenge those internalized messages that tell you you're not enough. I will guide you in building a more compassionate relationship with yourself by fostering self-acceptance, self-kindness, and resilience. My approach is all about helping you tap into your inner strengths and recognizing your inherent worth. Together, we'll work to quiet that inner critic, nurture your confidence, and help you move through life feeling more empowered and in control.
Getting started is simple. Whether you prefer texting, calling, or emailing, reach out in the way that feels most comfortable for you. Let’s begin your journey to feeling more confident and in control of your life.