It’s time to calm the spirals, quiet self-doubt,
I’m an anxiety therapist in California helping women overcome anxiety, overthinking, and overwhelm so they can build confidence and feel grounded in their lives again.
Anxiety Therapy for Women in Their 20s & 30s in Apple Valley & Online Across California.
A Modern & Relatable Approach to Anxiety Therapy
At Tru Healing Therapy, I offer a modern, relatable approach to anxiety therapy that adults actually look forward to. We’ll do meaningful, evidence-based work — while also making space for real conversations, laughter, and feeling human again.
I specialize in working with adults who feel stuck in cycles of anxiety, overthinking, and self-doubt — often rooted in past experiences, emotional wounds, or long-standing patterns that the nervous system hasn’t fully released yet.
Together, we’ll calm the spirals, explore what’s happening beneath the surface, and work toward lasting change — so you can feel more grounded, confident, and in control of your life.
How Anxiety & Overthinking Show Up in Everyday Life:
For many women, anxiety and overthinking show up in everyday patterns that leave you feeling overwhelmed, stuck in your head, and disconnected from yourself. As an anxiety therapist in California, these are some of the most common challenges I help women work through in therapy:
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Anxiety often feels like your mind won’t shut off. You replay conversations, overanalyze every decision, and imagine the worst-case scenario until you’re drained. In therapy, we’ll slow down the spirals, help you quiet your mind, and give you tools to stop overthinking before it takes over.
You don’t have to live stuck in your head. Therapy can help you find calm again.
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Anxiety tells you that you’re not enough, no matter what you do. You second-guess every choice, doubt your abilities, and feel stuck in “what ifs.” Together, we’ll build self-trust, confidence, and the courage to believe in yourself again.
With support, you can move from doubt to confidence.
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Saying “yes” when you want to say “no” often comes from anxiety and the fear of letting others down. This leaves you exhausted, resentful, and stretched thin. In therapy, we’ll work on setting boundaries, releasing guilt, and learning to honor your own needs without fear.
It’s possible to say no without guilt and I’ll help you get there.
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Anxiety makes boundaries feel scary. You worry about disappointing others, being seen as “selfish,” or starting conflict. But without boundaries, you end up drained and overwhelmed. In therapy, we’ll practice clear, confident boundaries so you can protect your energy and feel more in control.
You deserve boundaries that support your peace of mind.
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Anxiety keeps you in constant “go mode.” You’re the strong one everyone relies on, but inside you’re running on empty. Together, we’ll explore how to slow down, prevent burnout, and create balance so you can show up for yourself as much as you do for everyone else.
Therapy can help you rest, recharge, and find balance again.
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Many anxious women push themselves to be perfect but no matter how much you achieve, it never feels good enough. In therapy, we’ll uncover where that pressure comes from, challenge the inner critic, and create space to rest, try, and grow without the weight of perfectionism.
You don’t have to be perfect to be worthy. Let’s rewrite that story together.
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Anxiety affects how you show up in relationships: overthinking what others think of you, worrying about conflict, or giving more than you receive. Together, we’ll work on building healthier connections where you feel secure, valued, and respected.
You can create relationships that feel safe and balanced.
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Past trauma can leave your nervous system on high alert, making everyday situations feel overwhelming. Therapy provides a safe space to process what you’ve been through and calm those triggers so you can feel more grounded in the present.
Healing is possible. You don’t have to stay stuck in the past.
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Anxiety makes change feel paralyzing. Whether it’s a new job, relationship, or season of life, you may feel lost or unsure of who you are. In therapy, we’ll clarify what matters most to you, ease the fears that come with transition, and help you move forward with confidence.
You don’t have to navigate change alone. Therapy can guide you through it.
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When you struggle with anxiety, your own needs tend to fall to the bottom of the list. You take care of everyone else first, push through your exhaustion, and ignore what you need until you feel disconnected, resentful, or completely drained.
In therapy, we’ll work on slowing down, tuning back into yourself, and rebuilding the self-worth and self-compassion that make it feel safe to rest, say no, and honor your own needs again. You deserve care too — not just from others, but from yourself.
You are more than your anxiety.
Together, we’ll quiet the spirals of anxiety, challenge self-doubt, and build the confidence and calm you’ve been craving so you can finally feel grounded, capable, and in control of your life.
Private pay anxiety therapy for women across California.
Licensed Marriage & Family Therapist & Founder of Tru Healing Therapy
I’m Kristian, a Licensed Marriage & Family Therapist and the founder of Tru Healing Therapy in California. I specialize in helping women work through anxiety, overthinking, and self-doubt. My work is trauma-informed and nervous-system focused, helping clients address the deeper patterns that often fuel anxiety, not just the surface symptoms.
In our work together, we’ll focus on strengthening the most important relationship you’ll ever have — the one with yourself. That means learning how to put your needs first without guilt, building confidence that feels real and lasting, and trusting yourself again. Clients often share that therapy doesn’t just help them manage anxiety — it changes how they show up in every area of life.
“Healing is brave. Choosing therapy means you’re no longer carrying it all alone- you’re giving yourself the chance to find calm, clarity, and hope again.”
Starting therapy is an act of courage. It’s saying, “I’m ready to stop just surviving and start truly living.” Healing doesn’t mean you never feel anxious again, it means learning how to quiet the noise, trust yourself, and show up for your life in a new way. My role is to walk alongside you with compassion and guidance, helping you uncover your strengths, nurture your confidence, and remind you that joy and peace are possible, even after years of anxiety or self-doubt.
Getting started is simple. If anxiety, overthinking, or self-doubt have been weighing on you, you don’t have to navigate it alone. I offer private pay therapy for adults throughout California and would love to support you in taking the next step.






